Sorry to read that this is hitting too close to home for Bill and Gary. Deezer, you've always seemed very mature to me, trust your gut when you're leary of someone emotionally unstable, its better to be safe than sorry...
This topic totally unravels every one of my nerve endings, so I just want to add something to keep in mind. Since the Virginia Tech incidence, colleges seem to have put in some extra securities for emergencies. Alert systems are now in place that can send emergency messages from the college to the students and parents via cell phones, computers, telephones, etc. When I signed up for my college student I did it for 3 people; Mom & Dad (home & work) & the student. One night about 2 in the morning my cell went off, it said there was a gun shot in an outdoor parking lot and the campus was in lock down. (There was a multi-cultural event which drew from a wide area, it was believed to be an outsider, no one was hurt) Most importantly, the message got out!
Most important reminder for the students is to keep their cell phones charged and on vibrate when they are in class so they could receive a text message.
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