Is this the right topic area, Al? No matter brother.
The fact that I'm almost psychotic about music is probably no surprise. It's a great big world. Some of the problems I have with guitar players are of my own making. All too often we don't want the same thing.
I'll try to explain myself a little at a time. Just a point of view, if you will, since you asked. I love rhythm. I love the groove. I do NOT dislike the instrument. I love blues. The only instruments that can play all the parts (if done well) are guitar and piano. I could not work (gig) without the guitar.
Playing wise I grow weary of egocentric wanking that doesn't tell a story other than look at me. The playing is the manifestation of the soul of the player. When one instrument becomes more important than the song, (one band, one sound) it is no longer a collaboration or a conversation or even a narrative, I get bored...then grumpy.
Laziness is another of my pet peeves. Lately I must be in need of some sort of lesson. It seems that I have found myself surrounded by guitarists who are egomaniacs with no reason to be. My brother assures me it's a local phenomenon. My new bandmates all confirm that.
Hard work beats talent when talent does not work hard. I don't mind a long jam if everyone is on the same page. Strictly a matter of taste. I like appropriate licks. Playing a Steve Vai shred in the middle of a jazz swing blues is not appropriate to me and proves only that one is not in sync with ones bandmates...IMO.
I have walked out of rooms where the guitarist has told me he plays SRV perfectly and once we start it becomes obvious that he/she is playing what they think ought to be there, instead of what is. When I say that's not right, I get insulted and abused. "What do you know? You're just a bass player."
I love players with big ears and humble hearts. I wish I was more like that. I love music. A guitar doesn't have to lock in with the drummer, the bass player does. The guitar certainly can or he can take off...just change when we do. COMMUNICATE.
To me tight is RIGHT! Accents in the right place, all together...3 part harmony, spot on. Know when to play and when to back off. A full frontal assault at volume 10 with full on distortion is not even music.
When I played with my brother Bob in Boston last year, we started of letting all the jammers play and shred and have fun and Bob & Jeff & Mike (drums) just hummed along putting down that greasy soul blues backbeat. No competition, just full support. When it came Bob's turn, he stepped on his pedal, looked at me with that look in his eye, and ripped the head off of every player in the place for 24 bars, dialed it down and sang the last verse and quit. Goose bump material!
Long extended jam but structured. The song Killing Floor is a harder gut punch as a 3 minute song than a 6 minute one, just like Born Under a Bad Sign...IMO.
I'll talk about bands if you want to, but that's fairly simple. In younger days I drank, drugged or got caught with the singer who belonged to somebody else, my way out of them.
Nowadays in my sober dotage it's just we don't want the same thing.
I probably should proofread this but I'm tore down. Thanks for asking, I guess
MuchLove
FDOL
Rock On & Keep the FAITH
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Blues From the Bottoms