Had to Cry Yesterday....Woke Up And Wasnt Dreaming (Page 1 of 2)

Darrin,

I ache for you.  I'm so sorry this has happened to you.  I know this pain, only too well. 

I'm glad you've decided to share it here, as, there are certainly a lot of people who care VERY MUCH about one another, even if most of them are asleep right now.  You will get many more replies tomorrow, I'm sure.

I'm going to email you some more private thoughts right now.

Bless your little heart,

Libby

Hey Darrin,

as you already said we talked about it in the chat a few weeks ago .... I´m sad to hear that it really happened now. And after 14 years .... that´s though.
Do you remember when we first talked in the chatroom and you said that you don´t post in the forum too often? I realized that you did post a lot since then and I´m always happy to read what you´ve got to say . I hope this forum gives you a bit of a family-feeling as it does for many of us - I can only say that I´m glad you are here!

I will try to come in the chatroom today or tomorrow, maybe we can talk a little then.

Eva

Darrin - don't know you but hope to someday. Glad you opened up the subject for discussion.

I really feel for you and I've been layed off from jobs that mattered a lot to me, but not after 14 years - that's rough.

You seem to have a positive outlook that you'll get another job, and thats great, and I'm sure a really great opportunity is right around the corner.

My sister got laid off right before the holidays and does have a daughter to support and also cares for my mom. She was panicking, but got a call within 2 days and is now working at a MUCH better place - she didnt realize how much of a rut she had been in till she was doing something she really loves.

Please keep us posted about things when you do find a job - till then, our good thoughts are with you.

As for how is the economy affecting us?

For a variety of reasons, I dont think I would still be at my current job if this were a different economic climate. I'm a special ed teacher with 10 yeas of experience and good references - there is a huge shortage, particularly in my area of special ed, so jobs have come easy to me and i will never want for work, but i am now scared. I'll look at other options during the summer, because its not fair or right for me to keep teaching somewhere if I'm not feeling the necessary enthusiasm, but I think the luxury of following my heart is a thing of the past, for now at least.

Expendible income is a thing of the past too and necessity has to be redefined on a monthly basis. A $15 ticket can easily turn into a $50 dollar evening, MINIMUM. Times are tough, but I know I have it good compared to others so I cant complain.

Things will get better though, so hold on tight for this part of the ride till it gets smoother.

Hmmm...I will choose my words carefully because this is important.  There is always a plan.  Take a moment to consider this.  Do not confuse the channel with the source.  A job is just a channel.  THE SOURCE IS INFINITE AND PERFECT.  Trust that.

allthebest
bigjeff

Hey Darrin.  So glad you posted.  I know right now you feel a little low but as Cathy mentioned keep yourself open to all new possible opportunities.  Take one day at a time and never waiver in believing in yourself, your talents or your capabilities.  I was downsized twice out of two of my previous jobs.  So, I do know how you feel.  After that I even changed job careers.  At first it is devastating but after sometime passes you realize that it was for the best.  New opportunities are out there waiting for you!!  We are always here for you on the forum.  HANG IN there friend.   

                                             Barbara.......

Dear Darrin,

I feel very sorry for you too. It's always possible to loose your job, but what worries me most is why!!
Like Roy said: Mostly because of that damned MONEY!

Here in Holland it's just the same, when a company goes broke theré's always a money story behind it, the managers , directors, banks etc. earn a lot and the workers stay behind with nothing.
I won't get political either but you all know what the war in the middle east and for us Dutch Afghanistan cost???? Bush etc. criminals!
That's why I hate politics!!
We could help people like Darrin, the homeless, the sick etc. a lot with that money
That frustrates me a lot!!

Darrin I hope you find yourself another job soon and I'll cross my fingers for you! keep us informed please.

Andre Wittebroek.

Hi Darrin,
  Just read your post and I feel for you man. I really do. The hardest part is devoting 14 years to the same company only to have this happen. Like everyone else has said, chin up, one door closes another opens.  Take the summer off, kick back collect your unemployment checks. Something better may come your way.  I know all about the sad state of real estate here in the Pittsburgh area. It is so sad to see so many homes up for sale, and they aren't selling.  Wifey and I have been looking for some time now to move.  We have been here for 18 years. Our nice quiet little neighborhood isn't so nice and quiet anymore. (Crafton) Low income housing popping up all around us. My property value has dropped drasticly.   Hang in there my friend it'll get better. We promise.

Darrin,I just wanted to say that I too have had some hard times with work,not having a job and bills piling up.Feeling like your falling into a hole you cant get out of.But like the others have said here,it will get better.Companies are always in need of good people.skilled people,and good people.You seem like a good person,just do everything you can to stay busy.check the internet ,ask everyone you know,read the classified ads.focus on being positive.Its hard sometimes,dont give up if things dont happen right away keep plugging along.I wish you all the luck,and remember all the bonamaniacs will be here for support as you can see by all the posts you have.