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No Roy I believe it's all true.  I had more than one confirmation.  The beauty was however, when I came to in the Intensive Care Unit.  After being almost brain dead for a week, I received the most incredible care in that unit.  They kept my meds levels up, my BP down and never once told anyone that came to see me, they were unwelcome.

I guess they had heard the initial story and were embarassed by their colleagues, or they were the consummate pros.  Either way...

MuchLove
to the FDOL

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Hi Jeff

I just stumbled upon this now. Sorry to read about your ordeal. I'm glad to hear that you are on the mend. Take care big guy.

Duncan

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My god Mr. Jones!!!......I just read the thread, I'm really stunned .... Deb and I pray for your health....being part of the family here on the forum, it hurts us to see something like this happen to a fantastic human being.....we all are sending you some juju.....your one tough man, and this is a little bump in the road for you......you'll be stronger than ever when you heal up, that we can count on BigJeff smile

Much love from Cali land,

Dave and Deb

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Amsterhammer wrote:
bigjeffjones wrote:

The Divine MsTia just showed me some pictures she took.  God I'm pretty!  Tomorrow if I can figure out how, I might post them.  Back to bed for me now however. sad

In view of what you told me last night I have to question the wisdom of sharing those pics with the world. roll

But yes, I'm curious too. tongue

Relax, heal, let your family wait on you hand and foot, and concentrate on getting enough weight back so that your shorts will stay up. big_smile


George, are you SURE you want to see pictures?  You couldn't handle pictures of my Frankenkitty, let alone my FrankenBigBrother!  tongue  And George, what has come over you with all of the smileys?  wink

I'm glad you posted Jeff - there's a whole big world of folks who love you!!  I must say that my conversations with you during your hospital stay were the most entertaining that I've ever had with someone who just lost their tomato, or nectarine, or whatever you've decided it was most closely resembled.  wink  And, as I told you, I am so very glad that those surgeons didn't make you normal or boring.  I'm so grateful that you're fine, and that you are surrounded by loving family and friends - particularly that brave and divine Ms. Tia.  Please give her a special hug and kiss from me.   

Much Love,
your lil' bit

I know that Joe could play one of those kid's guitars with the plastic strings and make it sound good-
Bill S.

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Hi Jeff

Probably like most other folk around these cyberparts, I had no idea when I saw your earlier post on Facebook that it was so serious.

I'm so glad that you have come through this awful ordeal.
Once again, the Bonamasses have shown their nature with all the warmth and love shown.

Our love to your family as well - whilst you were horizontal and "out of it" of course, they were worried silly.

It's great to have you back.
So glad you're on a Bridge to Better Days and on the road to recovery now. Good job it wasn't the next track on the same album !! wink

Stay strong buddy (you've even got me talking all American now !!).

BestwishesandmuchlovefromoverthepondFDOL.....as you might say.

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WOW Jeff!!  What a wild ride!!!  I'm glad to hear you're doing well!  Best of luck with all the follow-up care on your road to recovery. Wow, that is one frightening story!!

I'm gonna' have to dig out my old Donna Summer vinyl and crank up "I'm A Survivor" in your honor!!  smile
Best Always,
Angela

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wow Jeff...haven't been here in a while, and wasn't sure if i'd remember my log on info...good old HP isn't thru with you yet evidently...hugs to ya...

Mindy

If heartaches were nickels
I'd be the richest fool alive

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Yes there is no forum or klan of any kind that can match this one.  It's Joe's reflection I see here.  You people are grown and I thank you once again.

Somebody dear to me wrote yesterday to say "Don't die.  The world has too many wankers that need proper guidance...me included."  I laughed out loud, then I wept.

NoWanking
MuchLove
BJJ FDOL

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bigjeffjones wrote:

Somebody dear to me wrote yesterday to say "Don't die.  The world has too many wankers that need proper guidance...me included."  I laughed out loud, then I wept.

NoWanking
MuchLove
BJJ FDOL

Sounds like they were talking about me Big Jeff. wink However, with your guidance and undeniable tongue in cheek hilarity, you've taught me to keep my wankiness in check. Assuming of course, "wankiness" is a word?

Rest, take time and as Carmine would say, "Remember to eat lots of fruits and vegetables". smile

Roy

Joe is the Best!

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BluesMan wrote:

Rest, take time and as Carmine would say, "Remember to eat lots of fruits and vegetables". smile

Roy

Just stay away from tomatoes for a while Funkydoc. Even I can't look one in the face now without thinking of what you've been through. Quite how that sits with you and the HOTTT stuff, I can't begin to imagine................ lol

If you couldn't laugh...................... (and I sincerley hope that's not against doctors orders wink

Take it easy big guy!

Ian

Please be in no doubt that this is the REAL ME! Beware imposters........................

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LOL! OKAY!  a tangerine, then?

backtoafcball
harrumphIsay

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Oh wow, Jeff. That was a close call there. I really hope you get well soon. -hug-

Mary

LOL-ler-tastic.

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It is said when your number is up there is nothing you can do about it. When your number hasn't been called even a gaggle of neen-kom-poops can't do you in. How many lives you got left Big Jeff? I think you went throug 3 or 4 this month.

I don't think the forum could handle another loss. Somebody was watchin out for you and us.

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WOW! I haven't read anything else by anyone yet, but I am glad to see you alive and kicking my friend.  I see you are still sprite if not entirely alright yet.  Much love, peace, prayer and grateful thought heading your way from me, let alone everyone. Is this a bad time to ask about your salsa recipe?  Remember that poster from back in the day, with the kitty hanging on a line? HANG IN THERE, BABY!

Rock On & Keep THE FAITH,
Rocket

So much for any ex's theory of brain damage roll (You still have it buddy...Your witty sense of humor that is lol)

"He still doesn't charge for mistakes! wink"
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Jeez!  OMG I just logged in and read your post.  So glad you're back with us BJJ.  Big hugs coming your way (((J))) for a full recovery and so glad you didn't lose your special sense of humour.

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Thanks Jim, Rocket.  Thanks again everyone.  Some observations:

I am hyper-sensitive.  It's as if (at times) my nerves have no insulation on them.  I sit up in bed when the dogs start moving around the house.  I have ruined TV watching for my family...not that we are that heavy into it.  I watched the Jets/Colts game yesterday and had to be put down at the end of it...up too long.

It's been decades since I had any sort of real anxiety/fear about anything.  I get it NOW.  It rolls up on me in waves.  Then it recedes.  Understandable I guess. 

A special thanks to anybody who kept MsTia in their thoughts and prayers.  Both she and TB demonstrated incredible bravery through all this.  I am BLESSED.  My faith is powerful.

MuchLove
BigJeff

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bigjeffjones wrote:

Thanks Jim, Rocket.  Thanks again everyone.  Some observations:

I am hyper-sensitive.  It's as if (at times) my nerves have no insulation on them.  I sit up in bed when the dogs start moving around the house.  I have ruined TV watching for my family...not that we are that heavy into it.  I watched the Jets/Colts game yesterday and had to be put down at the end of it...up too long.

It's been decades since I had any sort of real anxiety/fear about anything.  I get it NOW.  It rolls up on me in waves.  Then it recedes.  Understandable I guess. 

A special thanks to anybody who kept MsTia in their thoughts and prayers.  Both she and TB demonstrated incredible bravery through all this.  I am BLESSED.  My faith is powerful.

MuchLove
BigJeff

Hey Doc, the nerve thing is strange. I'm still dealin' with it and my surgery was 2 years ago Oct. 3rd. I basically still have partial  numbness on the left side of my head, neck, and shoulder and get different sensations as time goes by, my Doc says it will never be the same, but there is more feeling than right after it happened. The up side is my left rotator doesn't ache as bad as it used to. Hang in Big Guy and follow doctors orders, I know that's a tall order FLOL!

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Funny that.  For the first time in a long time, I AM following orders, if you will.  You should see this list of stuff I can't do.  The meds are finally working like they should and I can even sleep sometimes.  I have NOT slept in months.

Must've had sumpn on my mind. tongue

It takes more strength, sometimes, for me to do nothing...

OK back to bed before the family gets home  big_smile

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