Deezer wrote:I saw him this last Wednesday in Tulsa and he was absolutely amazing to his fans. He even was out before the show talking to some folks. Maybe everybody has their off-nights where they just don't feel good or feel like talking. Honestly, Joe's done it so much and we've heard it so much that now I guess we expect him to come out EVERY time. Don't get down on someone when you haven't walked in their shoes. He's always on the road, constantly on the road. That has got to be taxing. I don't know, I've never done it, but I know that a 7 and a half hour roundtrip from Russellville to Tulsa and back was absolutely exhausting for me. I can't imagine doing that the next night, it was a two day recovery for me. It would be nice if he did go out for EVERY show, and most of the time, he does go out. And granted, some people it may be their only time of seeing Joe, I empathize with that. But we have to realize what he was doing the night before, and what he's going to be doing the night after, and so on. Realizing that, I can begrudge him a select few times where he doesn't do that, or is grouchy. Touring can bring out the worst in people, shoot just look at Behind The Music and that is clear.
Mr. Deezer........again sage words.
It doesn't always go the way fans think it should and as humans our focus tends to be what is within our own eyesite (point of view). Nobody is perfect or the same all the time, but I do know the effort is there and it is always on Joe's mind.
Just a little over a week ago Joe did a show in Dallas, drove all night to Houston to be woken up early for a morning show live radio broadcast. Joe did the show without much rest or consideration and after coming off of several shows in a row and not enough rest for his voice, almost hurt himself doing the radio show. Joe spent the rest of the day trying to loosen up his voice and get medical clearance to sing. All of that time he should have been sleeping. Once he got sort of loosened up and OK from the Dr., Joe proceeded with the show. I know it wasn't comfortable and Joe couldn't do the things he is accustomed to doing with his voice, but he toughed it out and did the show. Afterwards he spent almost an hour at the merchandise booth signing and posing for pictures with fans. I'm sure Joe may not appreciate me sharing that story, but I think it's essential to having some understanding.
I guarantee you that will be overlooked if the next day he didn't come out to greet fans or was cranky to the local crew. No one is aware of the factors that are leading up to certain events, other than Joe. The above is just an example.
I believe that some of the extra things that Joe has done over the years, that truly seperate him from the next guy, have given his fans a sense of entitlement and therefore when he doesn't live up to that people feel shorted when they really were treated to a great show for the price of admission.
A couple of years ago the gear trailer broke a spring and dragged the ground. They were on the way to a gig. They loaded gear in the van and left it. The van had a flat. Joe rented 2 cars and loaded the gear into them and I'm sure drove like hell to get to the venue at a reasonable time. The show went on. I could cite 20 examples of similiar incidences and I guarantee you I have only a small window into what has gone on.
I think Joe is humble and appreciative and feels the pressure associated with living up to it.
I don't know of another artist that has maintained such a rigorous schedule of touring, writing, recording and appearances, other than Joe. Think about the number of shows, store appearances, radio appearances, CD's, guest appearances on CD's that have been put out in the last 5 years. An amazing number. Granted, he has chosen to do so, but I think as time wears on we have to be considerate of that and understand nobody is 100% all the time.
Can Joe do a better job at some of these things? Maybe - there is room for improvement in everything. Can we be a little more understanding and less judgemental? Maybe, as well.
Just a little food for thought.
PC
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