Topic: Random thoughts: music message boards vs. sports message boards

I post on an Arkansas Razorback message board, and I find it very odd the differences of the way things work between a sports message board and a music message board (such as this one). On this Razorback message board, of course, the big topic is whether the current football coach should be fired after this year. The discussion has gotten heated, to the point of people flat-out name-calling and telling the moderators that they're retarded. I myself get involved in this what is essentially very heated argument and insult-throwing. However, the owner of the site is very good at making sure that there is no bad language, but still I have been called nearly every name under the sun that's not vulgar. However, everybody pretty much likes it that way.

If I were to do that on this board, I'm fairly sure I would be banned. In fact, at one point, I was banned from a forum, the LLB forum. I thank God everyday that I was, there were more LLB groupies than good music fans over there anyway. But that's of no matter. Over here, if I would to get into an argument, that would be stopped very quickly. And it's not just this site, it seems like every music-based forum I've ever been on has been this way.

So, why do you think this is? I myself do not honestly know. I thought it might be a passion thing, but you can be as passionate about sports as you can about music. I'm just interested in seeing your thoughts.

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Oh man, the LLB board... I remember that. Who knew you could get banned for liking SRV? Crazy things.

Which I could answer your question though.  Maybe its just like the people differences.  Like on a sports board people maybe are of a certain type to be on there, where as music they just have to like the music? Not sure.

3 (edited by photogal 2007-11-18 12:01:21)

Re: Random thoughts: music message boards vs. sports message boards

Deezer,

Is the message board for the Razorbacks owned by the team?

I think part of the reason is that you usually know if you like a team before you seek out a forum. Many people come to Joe's web site to find out more about Joe and to hear what his music is like. This web site for Joe is his means of public relations. For many it is their first taste of Joe. I applaud the moderators here for the tediious work they do, making sure that the topics are reader friendly for all ages. I know some people who have posted here get upset because very negative comments will be dealt with, but so be it. Joe pays for this web site and has a right for this forum to reflect a positive attitude regarding his music.

If you were new to Joe's music, having never been to a show before, and read a bunch of negative stuff here you might not go to a show or buy CD's. If you read something negative on a forum regarding your sports team you would still probably get tickets to a game. 

~Rhonda

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Deezer wrote:

I post on an Arkansas Razorback message board, and I find it very odd the differences of the way things work between a sports message board and a music message board (such as this one). On this Razorback message board, of course, the big topic is whether the current football coach should be fired after this year. The discussion has gotten heated, to the point of people flat-out name-calling and telling the moderators that they're retarded. I myself get involved in this what is essentially very heated argument and insult-throwing. However, the owner of the site is very good at making sure that there is no bad language, but still I have been called nearly every name under the sun that's not vulgar. However, everybody pretty much likes it that way.

If I were to do that on this board, I'm fairly sure I would be banned. In fact, at one point, I was banned from a forum, the LLB forum. I thank God everyday that I was, there were more LLB groupies than good music fans over there anyway. But that's of no matter. Over here, if I would to get into an argument, that would be stopped very quickly. And it's not just this site, it seems like every music-based forum I've ever been on has been this way.

So, why do you think this is? I myself do not honestly know. I thought it might be a passion thing, but you can be as passionate about sports as you can about music. I'm just interested in seeing your thoughts.

First of all, this is a complex enough topic that it would be good fodder for a lengthy masters thesis in social psychology and how it applies to the internet.  But in my opinion several factors are at work in general.  Sports is currently a primary secular religion.  This engages the emotions rather than the intellect.  Fans are partisans for their guys and their opinions.  I would suggest a strong parallel to religion and politics (but that's just my opinion).

Another factor is who owns and operates the website.  I'll bet that the guy running the Razorbacks website is a fan who wants to maximize his traffic and therefore his income.  In this sense, emotion is great for business, so let it run (mostly) wild.  Whereas the (sensible) artist who owns his own forum is interested in a safe and enjoyable community for his fans to share opinions and interact and disagree respectfully, so that people can have fun, get to know each other, and even maybe learn something new and interesting.

Add in the specifics of Joe's website with all of the great and diverse group of fans that mostly seems interested in learning from each other rather than getting into meaningless urinating contests, and I think this largely explains it, as well as the rules, community expectations, and work by the moderators (thank you guys).  Maybe the relative age and life experience of people here has something to do with it to as I like to think that older folks who have learned something from life and aren't bitter generally aren't looking to win every argument as a show of who is the biggest alpha male who can shout the loudest, but are rather looking to maybe learn something and be surprised by what someone else might know or share.  It's pretty hard to learn from someone else when you are focused on calling them names and winning meaningless arguments. 

Anyway, just a bunch of rambling thoughts but without going on a 35 page essay it covers a lot of what I think about it.  But that's just my opinion and I could be wrong.

5 (edited by cathysiler 2007-11-18 14:53:06)

Re: Random thoughts: music message boards vs. sports message boards

Well put Dude...I think of this forum as a mostly "drama free zone"..thanks heavens! I know people get hurt feelings once in a while..but all in all it's civil. I do believe that the mean age of members is a factor. This is my only forum, so I can't compare, but I've heard horror stories. This is my primary source for new music now and I can hardly keep up...Deezer, I know you like a good argument, you've said it before, but, for myself, I pick my battles.....Peace....Cathy          (I forgot to add that I don't think we must only post positive things here. I think if a patron has a bad live show experience, or less than optimal reviews, it's appropriate to express them. I don't think Joe wants to turn a blind eye to those issues. Legitimate criticism is consructive. It's how you post it that matters.)

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I wasn't really criticizing one way or the other, just point out the differences. This Hog site is run by a fan, but at the same time, he's very good at making sure things don't get too out of hand. Doesn't allow cursing and such. But yeah, mainly I was just marveling at the differences.

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Re: Random thoughts: music message boards vs. sports message boards

Deezer wrote:

I wasn't really criticizing one way or the other, just point out the differences. This Hog site is run by a fan, but at the same time, he's very good at making sure things don't get too out of hand. Doesn't allow cursing and such. But yeah, mainly I was just marveling at the differences.

No criticism intended from me, either.  It's just that each website has it's own social context just like a biker bar, a library, a church, or a coffee-shop conversation with friends.  It's possible to enjoy all 4 of those situations and behave appropriately according to the group expectations.  But appropriate and group expectations matter.  Plus, there is a self-selection in people tending to hang around places they like, and avoiding those they don't, too.

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photogal wrote:

Deezer,

Is the message board for the Razorbacks owned by the team?

I think part of the reason is that you usually know if you like a team before you seek out a forum. Many people come to Joe's web site to find out more about Joe and to hear what his music is like. This web site for Joe is his means of public relations. For many it is their first taste of Joe. I applaud the moderators here for the tediious work they do, making sure that the topics are reader friendly for all ages. I know some people who have posted here get upset because very negative comments will be dealt with, but so be it. Joe pays for this web site and has a right for this forum to reflect a positive attitude regarding his music.

If you were new to Joe's music, having never been to a show before, and read a bunch of negative stuff here you might not go to a show or buy CD's. If you read something negative on a forum regarding your sports team you would still probably get tickets to a game. 

~Rhonda

Really, the answer is EXACTLY the reason posted above by photogal. Pay specific attention to the main paragraph in the above post.

That is truly why we attempt to moderate it the way we do.

People do wonder why they are on such a short leash when they decide to criticize Joe, but the facts are this is not the place for that.

.....and Jane was correct when she stated that this post should have been made in the "Off Topics" area. It has been moved.

We do attempt to take a hands off approach to moderating the forums, as they were unmoderated for a long period of time. We are able to just let them run as long as everyone tries to follow the intent and spirit of the posting guidelines.

Most recently things got a little out of hand and we have made a conscious effort to reel it back in, so a firmer approach has been used and will continue to be used until the offenders get the message or can no longer post here.

Have a great day! big_smile

PC

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I know it will hit me over the head when you tell me, but what does LLB stand for?  Thanks. 

I haven't been on any sports forums, only music and like Jane, Joe's was the first. (Bonavirgins in more ways than one...)

Dude-great snynopsis and about sports, partisan for your guy...so true.  My younger son (16) is so blind sided by our Phila. Eagles quarterback, Donovan McNabb...its kinda cute because he is so loyal, he just can't see the forest for the trees and accept that Donovan has already peaked, he's past his prime. (Maybe I resent Donovan because he couldn't get along with TO...also partisan and lucky for Phil smile ) For any of you folks that post on sports boards, pass on a message...I love Brian Westbrook...multi-talented and consistent...half the time I think he's carrying the whole team on his back!

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Angela wrote:

I know it will hit me over the head when you tell me, but what does LLB stand for?  Thanks.

Los Lonely Boys?

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Angela wrote:

I know it will hit me over the head when you tell me, but what does LLB stand for?  Thanks. 

I haven't been on any sports forums, only music and like Jane, Joe's was the first. (Bonavirgins in more ways than one...)

Dude-great snynopsis and about sports, partisan for your guy...so true.  My younger son (16) is so blind sided by our Phila. Eagles quarterback, Donovan McNabb...its kinda cute because he is so loyal, he just can't see the forest for the trees and accept that Donovan has already peaked, he's past his prime. (Maybe I resent Donovan because he couldn't get along with TO...also partisan and lucky for Phil smile ) For any of you folks that post on sports boards, pass on a message...I love Brian Westbrook...multi-talented and consistent...half the time I think he's carrying the whole team on his back!

And that's working out great for Tony Romo and the Cowboys....HOW BOUT THEM COWBOYS!

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Fretwork wrote:
Angela wrote:

I know it will hit me over the head when you tell me, but what does LLB stand for?  Thanks.

Los Lonely Boys?

Yes.

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Makes perfect sense, LLB. thanks.

I know I mentioned before about TO having a home near me.  After I read about his early childhood, I went all soft on some of the other hoopla that took place.   A friend of a friend just recently got the listing to his mansion here in South Jersey.  She had a private opening for the neighbors and my daughter toured his house and helped the realtor out, by stuffing some stuff in closets and setting up for the party.  You would not believe the stuff TO left behind that he doesn't want back... a closet full of fur coats!!!  Anyway, TO is a HUGE talent, I'm glad he found some good chemistry in Dallas and I love the whole Tony Romo story!!  Football that happens like that is almost magical!

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I believe there has been a general degradation in sports (expecially professional sports), and sportsmanship in particular. Trash talking, posturing, taunting, and the general me, me, me...look at how great I am.
I have been a huge sports fan my entire life, watching and participating. I was taught about fair play, respect and good sportsmanship. These values are becoming less and less noticeable. I think this has trickled down to the fans, which may be part of the reason for the difference.
And TO, don't even get me started about him...sorry Angela, but I think he's the poster boy for what's wrong with sports today.

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I used to hate the guy, even as soon as last year. But this year he has actually not been an arrogant something something. Now, he'll never be Mr. Good Ol' Boy, but at least I can tolerate him now. Regardless of how much he's helping out my team.

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Bill...I get your drift totally...  Big money is one of the problems, selfish ME ME ME...the old Yankees (Joe DiMaggio) were great IMO, because back then they didn't hop around & switch teams for money...where's the loyalty? What about good old competition without buying yourself the best team.  How much $$$ does it take to stay, be bought??? It's sickening on all levels and trickling down lower and lower in the chain.  My niece is 15 years old and won't be home for Thanksgiving, because she is playing in a field hockey tourney in California for a week.  Just my opinion, family first...she's not training for the olympics!  A boy in my town, a junior 16 years old, is being hounded by colleges, especially Harvard, to play lacrosse...he's a C student...Harvard said they'd tutor him.  Keep in mind how hard it is to get into Harvard on academics!!!   I think its wrong, just my 2 cents!!  Academics and sports should be bundled together as a student's total package of what they have to offer, etc.

I respect TO's athletic ability, he was unhappy and frustrated here and brought alot of bad press to our town, it wasn't going to work here...He wasn't all wrong about some things, he wanted to win, he wanted the quarterback to get the ball to him.  He's obviously attention seeking and has issues. Andy Reid is hard headed and on a Donovan love fest, I was happy to see Jeff Garcia finish the season.  Don't get me wrong, I like Donovan, but sometimes you have to adjust and Andy's not good at that.  He's got a real mess in his family life, so I feel sorry for him too.  2 of his kids are going to jail for heroin...guns, very sad...his wife has done some road running too, so maybe Donovan & him have a special bond, they really support each other.   Football and soap mixed together. big_smile big_smile big_smile

After seeing the inside of TO's house, the first words out of my daughter's mouth were, he has major ego problems Mom! lol  He had the whole absentee parent thing going on etc., his grandmother raised him and she wasn't always nice and that's the main reason I'm glad he's finding some happiness, although its no excuse for bad behavior, some are capable of rising above all that.  I read he's really into music, has all sorts of recording equipment and will probably move into that after sports. I think he wants to be a movie star...

Deezer-I think TO's arrogant side isn't showing, because he's much happier since he's winning...simple as that...still hamming for the camera, but lots of guys do that!  Last year, the coach knew how to handle him, didn't let anything spiral out of control...nipped it from the start.

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They also struggled. You also gotta remember the Cowboys had Michael Irvin before. Look at how that turned out. Sometimes you have to let the outlandish be outlandish, and they will be great. I truly think that once you let T.O. be T.O., instead of trying to reel him in, he's comfortable. Yes, he hams it up. A lot of great receivers have. It's basically the primadonna position of the NFL. Like I said, look at Michael Irvin. He was allowed to be himself, and there is not one person that played with him that didn't enjoy playing with him. You've heard it from everybody this year, T.O. is much better to be around this year. And that is because the coach and the quarterback know how to handle him. Someone as talented as him, you don't just blast him when he wants the ball. You give it to him. Either you give it to him and he makes huge plays, or he screws up and you have leverage when he demands the ball again. So far, it's working out great. He's having the season of seasons. And the crazy thing is, despite giving him the ball so much, he still doesn't have half of Romo's touchdown passes.

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18 (edited by The RiverCat^-^ 2007-11-20 08:19:10)

Re: Random thoughts: music message boards vs. sports message boards

Angela wrote:

(Maybe I resent Donovan because he couldn't get along with TO...also partisan and lucky for Phil smile ) For any of you folks that post on sports boards, pass on a message...I love Brian Westbrook...multi-talented and consistent...half the time I think he's carrying the whole team on his back!

Hi Angela,

Since your a Philly fan, I hope you don't resent Donovan too much.  I'm not a 49er fan, but I even felt sorry for the 49ers in how Terrell Owens treated the team, especially Jeff Garcia.  Jeff never should have been treated the way. Terrell Owens got in his face a number of times.  Alot of stuff went down here in San Francisco with Terrell that you got a big taste of with Philadelphia.  He left the 49ers no choice but to gid rid of him, despite his talent he was a detriment to the team as a whole.  The same remedy that the Philadelphia Eagles had to do.  Get rid of him in order to preserve the team.  Terrell Owens is a very selfish person and a big attention getter.  He thrives on attention.  Jeff Garcia and Donovan McNabb, the 49ers and the Eagles were his victims because he is not a team player.  People put up with him because of his immense talent.

One reason not to resent Donovan as much is because Terrell Owens was angry with the Eagles because management refused to redo his contract just one season into his seven-year $48.97 million deal he signed when he came to Philadelphia. 
This had nothing to do with Donovan McNabb.

Another reason to not resent Donovan as much, is because look at how the rest of the Eagles felt about Terrell Owens.  Look at who he got into a fight with, Hugh Douglas.  Donovan and the Eagles weren't the problem, Terrell was. In fact, Donovan could have said alot about Terrell and didn't.  Because Donovan is a team player. 

The reason Terrell was unhappy and fustrated was because of Terrell.  Terrell got the ball enough to ask for a pay raise after the first season, on a contract he signed.  Also it's the offensive co-ordinator that designs the offensive plays for the team, not Donovan.  It behooves Donovan to throw to an open receiver, Terrell or the other receivers on the team.   It wasn't about winning with Philly. If he behaved he could have been an integral part with Philly. Terrell was on a winning team compared to where the 49ers were and was close to a ring with Philly. It was about the money and being the no. 1 star for Terrell.

The only reason Terrell is not acting up this year with the Dallas Cowboys is because, he has everything he wants right now, as soon and if it turns sour, expect him to be in the middle of it.

I just want you to enjoy the Eagles with your current quarterback Donovan McNabb.  Because Donovan wasn't the problem with that particular situation. 

Happy Thanksgiving and Happy Holidays Angela smile

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