The rubes (even the high rolling power mongers type) of life don't change. The rules of life constantly change.
No "job" belongs to anyone or is for "only" somewhere.
A job is two-sided, a negotiation, and one's ( or both's) refusal is part of why one has not something, whether employer or employee, making money, saving money, losing money, or having no lack of or a total lack of money.
I'm not so good at dealing with anything bothersome either, but the childhood lesson is, set your mind on the lemonade and make a stand!
Rock ON & Keep the Faith,
Rocket
Damned if I know..... 
"He still doesn't charge for mistakes!

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“Now, this isn’t your ordinary party crowd, here. I mean, there are professionals in here.”