Topic: You all need to know how Joe saved my soul

Hi All
It has been a VERY rough 7 months for me but I need to let all of you know my story and how Joe, even thought I have never met him, has brought me back from a very dark place. Below is an email I sent to Joe and his management a few months back that tells my tale. I now have the guitar in record time from the custom shop and I am sure we know who made this happen. What is important is I am sure that there are many other people that Joe has touched in a profound way such as myself. I will be working towards getting back my chops and focus on raising money via music for colon cancer research. This new direction and focus is a direct result of how Joe's music has impacted me. He truly has saved my soul.
Thanks Joe I will be forever greatfull, I look forward meeting you this Thursday 3/24 in Worcester to sign my new Les.
Cheers Ron Connatser 

>>>>>>The email
Subject: Your music has saved my soul


Hi Nick

Is it possible for you to get this to Joe Bonamassa? I would rather not post this on the forum but I will if that is the only way I will have a chance for him to read this.

Thank Ron Connatser
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Your music has saved my soul

Hi Joe

My name is Ron and I feel  I need to tell you what your music has done for me. I will try to be brief and I hope you get this note.

Up until September 17th 2008 my life could not be more perfect, I had married my high school sweet heart Cindy (married 30 years) we had two wonderful kids, my wife and I did EVERYTHING together, things could not be better until on September 17th 2008 ( my 911) we were informed that my wife had colon cancer. She was never sick a day in her life.  I never knew courage until I saw how my wife handled this and fought. I can only dream of being so strong. Unfortunately on August 3rd 2010 of this past year she lost her battle with cancer. As with everything she left us her way at home surrounded by me and my kids. My kids are also amazing for they knew how important it was to their mother and me that they went back to college. So three short weeks after the loss of my wife they went back to school.

So how does this tie to your music? For me more then you will ever know.

My kids went back to college then I found myself coming home to an empty house just staring at the walls not knowing what to do.

A little more history….Prior to meeting my wife some 35 years ago I played guitar in a band. Started at age 4 and was playing clubs by 12. Music was my world until I met my wife at which time she was it nothing else mattered. Well we got married I sold my Marshall, pedals and Strat for an acoustic and as the years rolled on I hardly played at all for my wife and I were enjoying life together. I would do it again in a heartbeat.

Now back to above again…… as I said my kids went back to college then I found myself coming home to an empty house just staring at the walls not knowing what to do. I picked up my Ovation 12 string, that I have not touched for years and then after about an hour of playing it hit me. Playing was a comfort, it sent me to a wonderful place and helped the pain. Well then and there I decided it is never too late so I have started playing again. On day a few months ago I was talking to a buddy of mine and he said you need to listen to this young guitar slinger Joe Bonamassa if you want to hear rocking blues. So now this is where you come in. I went and purchased your live from Royal Albert hall DVD. I must have listened to that 100 times. Joe I know you have probably heard this a million times but your playing is truly amazing. Listening to you play has been the best medicine to help me through this hard time in my life. It has truly saved my soul. I have since purchased a Marshall and was hoping to buy one of your Gibson custom gold tops but I was informed  that they are out and do not plan on making any more. So I am doing the next best thing I am working with my local Guitar Center to see if I can have Gibson piece together a top quality custom Les Paul with the hardware of your gold top. I just purchased two tickets to your upcoming show on 3/24/2011 in Worchester Mass and I was hoping that I could bring it along for you to sign.

I hope you get this message and again thank you for your music as I said you will never know how much listening to your soulful playing is helping me heal.

Thank you so much a new fan.

Ron Connatser

cindyron@aol.com

"Joe B saved my soul, forever grateful Ron"
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Re: You all need to know how Joe saved my soul

Thanks for sharing, Ron. Bittersweet indeed. Yeah, Joe has not just technical ability, but the musicianship to really touch people. And from all the stories around here, I know he has a big heart as well.

- Paul

"It's really liberating to not know you can't do something." - Stevie Ray Vaughan
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Re: You all need to know how Joe saved my soul

Hi Ron:

Hope you made it last night. What a tremendous show to come to.

Did you get the LP signed?? I looked around for a guy with a guitar, but didn't see anyone.

Glad to hear that Joe could play a part in your journey. Keep on healing and hold your kids close.

Peace.

Re: You all need to know how Joe saved my soul

adavison wrote:

Hi Ron:

Hope you made it last night. What a tremendous show to come to.

Did you get the LP signed?? I looked around for a guy with a guitar, but didn't see anyone.

Glad to hear that Joe could play a part in your journey. Keep on healing and hold your kids close.

Peace.

Hi All
I went to the Worcester show last night. Saw Joe and actually talked to him for sometime. What a nice guy. I told him how much this ment to me to meet him and how gratfull I was for his music and how he helped me. Also for getting my custom les paul from the custom shop in unheard of 6 to 7 weeks. Well I was blown away what a show. I met others at the meet and greet. Guys from Maine and all over. It is amazing how they all made me feel. They had read the story on this forum saw my custom case and basically said you must be Ron. Thanks guys for all your kind words. Look forward to see you at the next Joe show. I have tickets for Boston in Nov.
Mr Joe Bonamassa ..........thank you so much for all you have done for me. Whenever you have a bad day and not sure of things remember the effect you have had on me and what a great thing you have done to pull me out of the darkness. I will be forever gratfull.
Thanks Ron
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Re: You all need to know how Joe saved my soul

Ron,

One of the guys from Maine here, nice to meet ya....and congrats on the guitar signing.....asked Wayne to snap some pictures of you and Joe, we will get those mailed over to you, just shot me your email address.

Meeting Joe is a VERY HUMBLING experience to say the least, he looked at Wayne and I, said I remember you guys from NH gig last year, as after the meet and greet at that show, we talked gear and guitars for almost an hour....even going behind the backline and checking out his guitar vault on a personal tour....

Also snap a pic or two of you and your friend sitting in your seats, will look to hook you up there too.......

Nice meeting you again, make sure to post pictures of your rig once done....would love to see

Sincerely

Jay Green

Self-Professed "GOLDIE" Nut-Job!!!!

JBLP #267

Re: You all need to know how Joe saved my soul

Guytron wrote:

Ron,

One of the guys from Maine here, nice to meet ya....and congrats on the guitar signing.....asked Wayne to snap some pictures of you and Joe, we will get those mailed over to you, just shot me your email address.

Meeting Joe is a VERY HUMBLING experience to say the least, he looked at Wayne and I, said I remember you guys from NH gig last year, as after the meet and greet at that show, we talked gear and guitars for almost an hour....even going behind the backline and checking out his guitar vault on a personal tour....

Also snap a pic or two of you and your friend sitting in your seats, will look to hook you up there too.......

Nice meeting you again, make sure to post pictures of your rig once done....would love to see

Sincerely

Jay Green

Hi Jay
It was great to meet all of you. Yeah when I spoke to Joe I was amazed at what a nice guy he is. He said he was sorry about my wife and he was glade to see that I got the guitar. What a night.
Yes I will send you pics of my rig. It may be a few weeks since they just completed the studio in my basement. Once I set it up I will send you some pics. Say hi to the rest of the Maine gang. Hope to see you at the Wang show. I would also like to help out like you guys where doing. Yeah that would be great if you could forward me the pics
Thanks Ron

"Joe B saved my soul, forever grateful Ron"
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