Hey Shred,
My husband often refers to Cats in the Cradle, (as a concept of time) it is a powerful & sad song. He had a great relationship with his dad who recently passed away at 90 years old. Life has some simple cruelties that are time related, since I also have had a good relationship with my parents this song always make me think things like...when parents are really working hard just to make ends meet and there simply aren't enough hours in the day, then when they retire, their kids are in the work mode with young kids and they don't always have enough time to spend with their parents. Its a vicious cycle in some ways.
Jim Croce was from my area. A friend of mine lived in his former dorm room sophomore year at college, Jim had carved his name in the wood and the school had a little tribute to him in one of the dining halls. Jim's songs have great lyrics, my hubby plays his songs on his acoustic guitar, I like listening to them. Back to the control of time...Time In a Bottle, is another powerful song. I often say I think time is the most precious commodity, sometimes I think there should be 8 days a week like that Beatle song. On the 8th day nothing is allowed to get added to your TO DO list, its like a catch up day, nothing bad ever happens on the 8th day of the week and you control every minute.
Anyway, unfortunately not every person makes a good parent and some people don't deserve to be a parent.
Shredit wrote:Jim Croce wrote some great songs, he passed on much to early..."Time in a bottle"...."Operator"....bring back some good memories as well....I can relate to so much of his music...as far as a relationship with our Fathers, that was life changing for me...I can vividly remember looking out the window as a 9 year old boy waiting for my father to drive up....he had promised me he would....he lived In South Carolina, us in California....it never happened..... this young boy would look out that window everyday for weeks....as I got older, the truth of the man was told to me by my older siblings, it was a good thing he wasnt around, quite a violent person....back to the topic, I need to find more songs that stir some good memories
Shred
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